Monday, March 9, 2009

Tips For On-Line Dating

When looking for a partner for yourself where do you go? Where do all your friends go? Is it the pub or clubs? If this is not your style, you know the type of man/woman you are seeking won’t be there, then my advice to you is: ‘don’t go there’. If you are not a pub or club person, you are not going to find your type of partner there so think of an alternative place. Somewhere where your type of partner does go.
What are your interests? What do you like doing at the weekend? If it’s golf or tennis make sure you belong to a club where you have the opportunity to play with members of the opposite sex. Bushwalking clubs and cycling clubs are usually mixed gender. Gallery openings are a great way to meet people and there’s something to talk about.
Free On-line works really well, I know because I have a Free On-Line Dating Service called LeCouple. My service is for ‘genuine’ people. When you put up your profile, make sure it is honest, say what you do for a living and list all your interests. Look for profiles that seem genuine, people who say what they do for a living and who list their hobbies and interests. If you can choose people to communicate with who have similar interests you will have something in common right from the start.
Don’t spend too much time writing emails; plan to meet in a safe place – the local coffee shop. Tell a friend what you will be doing and check in with your friend afterwards so that they know that you are safe.
If your new acquaintance turns out not to be the person she/he portrayed themself as, forget them. One tiny lie usually leads to many more.
If this new person is genuine, pleasant and easy to talk to but not Mr/Ms Right, don’t judge them as a prospective spouse but as a prospective friend. Build up a portfolio of prospective friends. If you make friends instead of dismissing him/her just because she/he is not Mr/Ms Right you will not get the opportunity to meet their single friends. Be open to every opportunity.
If she doesn’t seem interested, find out what she likes doing and invite her anyway. Women change their mind. If he doesn’t seem that into you, ration your time with him so that you represent a challenge.
Whatever you do, don’t give out your address on the first few meetings. Meet his/her friends before you do. Meeting their friends tells you a great deal about a person. If he/she is not entirely genuine, their friends will soon reveal any inconsistencies.
Above all be wary at first, don’t take risks. Once you feel safe, have fun, be yourself, don’t look for Mr/Ms Right in every one you meet. Just plan to have fun. Try to be the person you yourself would like to meet.
Remember you need to meet many frogs before you find a prince or princess.


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